Raising children is undoubtedly a challenging and rewarding experience. What happens when grandparents find themselves taking on the role of primary caregivers for their grandchildren who have emotional and behavioral concerns? This is a situation that many grandparents across the world are facing, and presents a unique set of challenges and joys. In this blog, we’ll explore the journey of extremely loving but overwhelmed grandparents who step in to raise children with emotional and behavioral concerns.

The Changing Landscape of Grandparenting

Over time, the landscape of grandparenting has undergone a significant transformation. While many grandparents have traditionally played a supportive role in their grandchildren’s lives, some now find themselves thrust into the position of full-time caregivers. This shift can happen for various reasons, including parents’ lifestyle or career, financial hardship, illness, substance abuse, incarceration, or death of a parent. In cases where children have emotional and behavioral concerns, the challenges can be even more complex.

Challenges Faced by Grandparents

  • Limited Financial Resources: One of the most immediate challenges that grandparents may face is financial strain. Raising children can be expensive, and many grandparents are living on fixed incomes or nearing retirement, which can make meeting the child’s needs a daunting task.
  • Navigating the Education System: Grandparents may need to navigate the education system to secure the appropriate support and services for their grandchild. This can include advocating for Individualized Education Plans (IEPs) or accommodations.
  • Emotional and Behavioral Concerns: Children with emotional and behavioral concerns require specialized care, patience, and understanding. Grandparents may need to learn new parenting techniques and seek professional help.
  • Balancing Their Own Needs: It’s essential for grandparents to find time for self-care and maintain their own physical and emotional well-being while caring for a child with special needs.

The Rewards of Grandparent Caregiving

  • Unconditional Love: Despite the challenges, many grandparents find immense joy and fulfillment in caring for their grandchildren. The bonds formed between grandparents and grandchildren can be incredibly strong and loving.
  • Stability and Consistency: Grandparents can provide stability and consistency in a child’s life, which is especially important for children with emotional and behavioral concerns. Routine and a nurturing environment can make a significant difference.
  • Wisdom and Experience: Grandparents bring a wealth of life experience and wisdom to their caregiving role. This experience can be invaluable in helping children navigate their challenges.
  • A Second Chance: For some grandparents, raising grandchildren is a second chance to be parents and create positive memories and experiences.
Support and Resources for Grandparents

Fortunately, there are resources available to help grandparents who find themselves in the role of primary caregivers for children with emotional and behavioral concerns.

At Premier Counseling we offer therapeutic services for aging adults as well as children.  Accessing therapy or counseling services for both the child and the grandparents can be invaluable in managing emotional and behavioral concerns.


Raising children with emotional and behavioral concerns is undoubtedly challenging, but when loving grandparents step in, it can make a world of difference. These grandparents provide stability, love, and support to their grandchildren, offering a chance for a brighter future. While the journey may be overwhelming at times, the rewards of watching their grandchildren grow and thrive make it all worthwhile.